Question by Rinse: What about certain traditions in marriages for homosexuals?
I ask this in all seriousness with no sarcasm intended; in gay/lesbian marriages is there any designated “partner” that gives the other an engagement ring? Obviously, in heterosexual relationships, the man tends to give the woman the engagement ring. Are there “typical” customs in homosexual relationships? It’s my understand that certain couples have a masculine partner compared to a more feminine partner (and I imply no actual biological sex in those terms) but I also understand there are relationships where neither partner identifies solely with one role, so does one propose, and then the that’s that? Or does the partner typically expect to be given his/her own ring sometime after?

Obviously, formal wear, is that just a personal choice (i.e. both wear tuxedos, one wear a white tuxedo and the other wear black, “tuxedo” is just a specific example, and should be considered interchangeable with “wedding gown” where appropriate)

*I’m sorry if any of this was not politically correct. I was just curious and I felt better to ask than assume.
So there are no real ubiquitous customs? Of course there are countless counter examples but traditionally, the man proposes to woman for not other reason because “that’s how it is.” Are there any specific LBGT customs/traditions or is it all just a case by case basis (which is understandable since it has only really recently begun to be widely accepted)?

Best answer:

Answer by Hank
Generally you can throw all gender roles out of the window, and I find most gay couples don’t have one person particularly more feminine/masculine than the other. I suppose whoever proposes is whoever gets up the nerve first.

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